There are men and then there are manly men. There are cocky men, whose confidence is charming as long as they don’t take themselves too seriously, and then there are LDE “Little Dick Energy” men, who punch out trees and shoot big guns. These are the guys who not only want to convince you that they’re Real Men, they’re desperately trying to convince themselves. Madison Cawthorn is such a being. You know that he loves to troll the libs and say something outrageous to get into the headlines. But this is a little more. This is him putting his inferiority complex out there for one and all to see.

Now, Cawthorn knows something about being a monster. He used to go on reckless joyrides with females in college and ask them about their previous sexual experiences, while they were a captive audience in his car and scared to death, wondering if they were going to get back to campus in one piece. This is his idea of masculinity.

Buzzfeed News:

As Cawthorn’s own political career took off, his former classmates expressed shock and dismay in private Facebook groups and text messages seen by BuzzFeed News; they said he had been “chauvinistic” on campus just a few years before and discussed female students’ sexual misconduct allegations against him.

Some came forward during his campaign to share their experiences with Cawthorn on social media and in private. Last August, World magazine published the accounts of three women who said the young conservative sexually harassed and verbally assaulted them. One of these women was among those who spoke to BuzzFeed News for this story. Cawthorn has unequivocally denied the accusations, telling the Daily Caller the story was a “mix of half-truths, untruths and potentially fabricated allegations.”

Then, in October, more than 160 members of the Patrick Henry community signed an open letter detailing “gross misconduct towards our female peers, public misrepresentation of his past, disorderly conduct that was against the school’s student honor code, and self-admitted academic failings,” including that Cawthorn “established a reputation of predatory behavior.” After the letter was published, Cawthorn told ABC 13 that it was based on rumors, and his campaign wrote in a Facebook post that he had the endorsement of a “significant number of PHC alumni and former students who knew him well.” The post was signed by just six people. Two worked for the campaign and a third was one of their relatives. […]

While Cawthorn has painted women’s accounts of sexual misconduct and predatory behavior as politically motivated lies, this new investigation into his time at Patrick Henry College provides an in-depth examination of the allegations against the North Carolina representative and uncovers previously unreported details. More than 20 former Patrick Henry students told BuzzFeed News that Cawthorn harassed his women classmates. The students either said they experienced his sexually inappropriate behavior firsthand, comforted friends after a traumatizing incident, or were warned about his conduct by their dorm leaders. Although Cawthorn was only at the school for just over one semester, students said he quickly developed a reputation as someone who took advantage of and mistreated women.

But former classmates also remember Cawthorn as magnetic and ambitious, delivering almost-too-firm handshakes, buddying up with nearly everyone he met, and flirting with and befriending many women classmates. A former high school football player and avid athlete — his Instagram feed is peppered with videos in which he claimed he was training for the 2020 Paralympic Games, which wasn’t true — Cawthorn exuded a jock persona at school, classmates said. He soon formed a small posse of guys, which seven former students told BuzzFeed News was known around campus as the “the douche crew.”

And then there was the time they found out what a pathological liar he was.

School officials invited the first-year student to speak in chapel in January 2017, a rare honor usually reserved for seniors. During his address, of which BuzzFeed News obtained audio, Cawthorn told the entire student body, as well as some professors and staffers, a compelling and terrifying story about the day his life changed: a car crash on the way back from a spring break trip in 2014 that left him paralyzed and questioning God. In his telling in the chapel, Cawthorn said that his best friend, his “brother,” escaped and ran to safety, leaving him unconscious to die “in a fiery tomb” with flames licking his legs. The crash, he said, also ruined his plans of attending the Naval Academy. Heading to Annapolis to serve the country was an integral part of his story and eventually became a prominent line in multiple interviews, campaign speeches, and ads.

But the students didn’t find out he was misleading them about his life-changing moment until last year, when Asheville Watchdog published the 2017 deposition in which Cawthorn said he had been rejected from the academy before he was injured and that his best friend had actually pulled him out of the car and saved his life.

Both Petree and Coulter [two women at the school whom Cawthorn had intimidated] said that after their private encounters with Cawthorn, it was tough to sit in the chapel in 2017 and listen to him talk about his relationship with the Lord and get emotional about his purpose as a Christian.

“Having to sit and listen to this man on a stage speak to us about his closeness with God or the events in his life, and knowing our experience with him, was really disappointing,” Petree said.

And here is Cawthorn talking about women. This is how manly men do it, we presume.

According to Petree and two other people who were present, Cawthorn began asking people at the table about how many people they had kissed or had physical relationships with, asking specifically about their previous partners’ races. After an awkward exchange about Petree not wanting to be with men shorter than her, Petree and the other people present said Cawthorn became aggressive.

“And all of a sudden, he snaps at me in a tone and with a degree of anger that no man has ever spoken to me since or before then. He snaps at me that I was just a ‘little blonde slutty American girl’ and yells this to me across the table, at a table of our peers — our Christian, conservative peers — all over a comment in response to an inappropriate, just astounding conversation that he’s initiated,” Petree said.

She walked out of the dining hall with her friend. Diego Lastra, Giovanna’s younger brother who had also been present, followed. Diego had hung out with Cawthorn and his friends for about a semester when they were all first-year students and remembers checking on Petree after the “slutty” comment to see if she was OK. Diego said repeated instances of that type of behavior by Cawthorn led him to pull away from the group.

When they had hung out, Diego said, it felt like the frat that his college didn’t have. He said the guys would make vulgar jokes. One day at the start of the spring semester, Diego, then 18, said Cawthorn was driving him and some of their friends back to his house to a party when Cawthorn asked, “Which race of girls gives the best blowjobs?” Cawthorn then interrupted him, Diego said, answering his own question: “White girls are the worst, Black girls are second, Asian girls are the best.” Another PHC student who was in the car confirmed the story.

Cawthorn’s classmates were reportedly horrified to see his rise in politics. We know exactly how they feel.

So remember, if you’re raising sons, grandsons, stepsons, what have you, make sure that they’re angry, hostile, mistreat women and lie a great deal — in short, that they’re “monsters.” That’s the Cawthorn recipe for making de-masculinized men re-masculinized. Or something.

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10 COMMENTS

  1. This whole “less testosterone” thing is really weird. Where are these “scientific studies” that back up this odd claim? I’ve heard this claim (obviously, in an ad for a “testosterone booster”) but I’ve never seen any actual scientific proof where average testosterone levels have been measured generationally (the ads I’ve seen generally start off with “men have less testosterone than their fathers and their fathers had less testosterone than *their* fathers”).

    It’s *possible* that there have been reductions in testosterone levels over the decades but it’s due far less to any specific method of raising a boy and far more due to overall social conditions like a largely sedentary lifestyle, increased levels of obesity and diabetes, even (somewhat ironically) steroid use. And (also a bit ironically), low testosterone levels don’t generally affect fertility and sperm motility but going on a testosterone replacement treatment or a supplemental regiment CAN cause fertility issues. Men in the 1920s and 1930s generally had jobs that required them to be very active while men in the 1950s and 1960s were largely holding down jobs that didn’t require a lot of activity–and jobs for younger men in the next couple of generations (80s/90s and 2010s/20s) got even less active and a reasonably active lifestyle (with a reasonably balanced diet) is a key to a decent testosterone level.

    It should also be noted that a lot of modern women suffer from lower testosterone levels than their mothers and grandmothers.

    If Madison thinks that testosterone is the only factor in raising boys successfully, he really needs to speak to someone who’s qualified to speak on the subject–like hormone specialists. Men and women both have (and need) testosterone to function (just as both have and need levels of estrogen and progesterone to function) and hormone levels rarely factor into how boys or girls are raised–that’s a matter of conditioning and socialization. But, funny thing that boys can be raised by women and girls can be raised by men and still turn out as “manly” or “womanly” as they would being raised by male/female couples.

    • Testosterone does not get raised or lowered because of “nurture” elements in someone’s life but rather by the “nature” elements. Some males are born with less or more-whether that is because if a genetic thing or if it is something going on while the fetus is still in the uterus and therefore gets affected that way-those are just two examples of what might affect testosterone. I have also read some literature where testosterone levels might be dropping with regard to plastic in the environment. Whether it is causation or correlation is not sure and in fact this particular study was only one study and probably shouldn’t be relied upon really for anything. I seriously doubt however that all the crap we put into our environment does anything good for hormones of any kind.

  2. I believe body shaming men by the size of their penis is just as toxic, maybe more toxic than body shaming fat people, flat chested women, etc. Some things can be changed,i.e., a boob job, losing weight,, etc.. It is so ingrained in our culture, I see supposedly enlightened women do it all the time. Somehow it’s wrong when men do women this way but OK for men to be shamed over something that has no bearing on the ability of a man to reproduce or bring women to climax. Flaccid penis size is not an indication of how large it will be when the time comes. Given the scientific fact that the average size of an erect penis is around 5 inches & a vagina’s depth is 4 inches, seems mother nature knows something. No one mentions degree of hardness, the nature of the relationship, etc. Everytime a man’s behavior or character is below par, a comparison is made of his penis. It’s wrong. It’s stupid & I wonder how many men are damaged by this. We know doing this to black people for something they didn’t choose,(skin color), or people with disabilities is wrong, but somehow doing this is widespread & culturally acceptable & PROMOTED in our mass media. When u sum up a man by his FLACCID penis, u are essentially promoting a lie. We then wonder why men are insecure. Geez if a large penis is essential for sexual prowess, I wonder why millions of women choose a partner WITH NO PENIS. Time to stop this ignorance. It continues to damage men. Do we need any more insecure men than we already have?
    ” how many roads must a man walk down, before you call him a man?” Bob Dylan, Blowing In The Wind

  3. I dream of the day when a man is judged by the content of his character & not the size of his flaccid or erect penis…to paraphrase a quote I once heard from someone I followed & admired. There are large penises with boys attached walking around. I’m average but my ex walked away from her fiance to marry me. His nickname had the word ‘donkey’ in it. Given about half of men over 40 can’t get hard for vascular reasons, this whole business is stupid. Of course how many small penis references have been made concerning Trump because he’s a vile human being? Heard it for 5yrs & counting. And we wonder why men are the way we are. Note to all women & gay men for that matter: I’m not here to fill ur holes cuz u are damaged and are looking in the wrong place for fulfillment. U can’t fix politics when the culture is SICK. Never gonna happen.

    • Very glad to see someone bring up this subject, so painful to so many boys and men. I’m an average guy, father of 2, happily married since forever, but have often encountered men who need to establish their alleged superiority by flaunting their allegedly large dicks. Like I should care. They’re the same guys who must have the biggest truck, the corner office, the best anything.

      • Thanks for speaking up. Time for men to open up & speak up. Real men are authentic & vulnerable. If women want more real men then stop believing YOU are the only ones victimized by our culture. Just not true & the time for lies is over.

  4. Does anyone really care what this pile of shit has to say or what he thinks? I sure don’t! I’d like to take him for one of his rides in the back of my flatbed truck I’d leave the sides off and would not secure his wheel chair……………….I’d find the most curvy mountain road I could find and watch him as he sailed off the flatbed right down a mountain side while asking him are you having fun yet?

    • Once again equating a man’s lack of character with a small penis. Grow up asshat. I wonder when u will find a better way to comment other than perpetuating this cultural lie. U sound like ur 14 & have been shamed urself. Time to stop it sonny. People shouldn’t be shamed period for any reason, whether it be race, height, weight, sexual orientation, income, origin of birth, eye color, or whether u lack intelligence, etc. Until we focus on CHARACTER, we, as a culture, will NEVER move forward. Thanks for demonstrating EXACTLY my point. Ur moniker matches the TV character.

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