Many whites, particularly those who grew up in the 30’s through the 50’s and beyond, grew up in communities of families, neighbors and friends who signaled the perceived inferiority of all African Americans to their young children and friends who shared their views.
We would not have characterized ourselves as racist. In fact, we would have vehemently denied it.
In my upbringing, and that of many others, there were no hateful statements about blacks, but the tone of white superiority was in the community. Signals and innuendos were there. Racist jokes were frequent and passed on to other whites, none of whom were deeply offended by such derogatory attempts at humor. Even an intended complement to a black person betrayed racism. “I had trouble with my car today and this great guy helped me–and he was a black guy,” implying the exceptional nature of a black man being a good person. Interracial marriage was discouraged. You didn’t want your son or daughter to marry a black person. This is what we white children were fed with some regularity.
We didn’t have black friends because they didn’t live near us.
We did recognize our common values with neighbors who weren’t like us in their appearance, customs, cultures and native languages. We were all poor and working class. My family and those of our neighbors came from countries like Italy, Ireland, Lebanon, Armenia and others. Each of our immigrant groups suffered prejudice, yet we lived together as friends and good neighbors to one another. Despite hateful prejudice, immigrant groups ultimately assimilated into a common American culture.
Those families of immigrants were not systematically segregated like those of black Americans, whose ancestors have been in this country centuries before the immigrant families I grew up with.
If black families had been our neighbors, they would have been our friends. We would have known them as people and recognized that their values and goals were the same as ours, growing up in struggling working class neighborhoods.
The direct and more subtle white supremacy indoctrination did not take with many of us. Some of us had the good fortune of getting an education, reading history and exercising our own judgment. Others did not need the gift of education to become people of character and connect with the human rights of all of us.
As BLM leaders have explained to us whites, it is not enough that you are not a racist, you must be anti-racism. You must stand up and be counted. At a minimum, make your vote count. It is an imperative.
Many of the white population I describe did not grow up in the same areas as blacks. We didn’t know black Americans because we didn’t encounter blacks to any significant degree. Segregation is responsible for that.
Systemic racism has existed throughout American history. White supremacy has been enforced in many ways. Outright, legalized segregation, with the blessing of the U.S. Supreme Court in 1895, made “separate but equal” the law of the land. Even after the Supreme Court, in 1954, overruled that disgraceful low point in Supreme Court history, American law and banking practice established red-lined communities that have successfully perpetuated segregation of blacks from white neighborhoods.
LeBron James commented that he never met a white kid until, as a teenager, he played organized basketball.
Children are not born racist. They absorb racial hatred from their families and friends.
Trump disgustingly manipulated a video of two boy toddlers, to turn it into something ugly. In fact, it was a beautiful, tender moment of a white boy and a black boy, both about two, hugging each other as their parents let them run to each other.
To this day, not enough of us, white and black, know each other, in many parts of the country.
In those decades (30’s-50’s), we could have ended or minimized racism had we been friends and neighbors in more mixed communities.
As an idealistic young man, I went to graduate school in Boston. In the first weeks of class, I told a black classmate and friend that I thought it was wonderful for us to be in such a liberal community without racism. His response was, “That’s because you’re white.”
He was right. Whites do not commonly see racism in law enforcement, for example. We are not pulled over in our cars for no apparent reason. We are not mistaken for a criminal police seek to apprehend. We are not mistakenly beaten for crimes we did not commit. We are not wrongfully murdered in the streets or in our homes.
In Boston, years ago, I came to understand what my friend had said as I got know more people in the community. It was amazing to me how blunt shamelessly racist white people would be when speaking to another white guy, as if we were assumed to share their hateful views.
It still exists today as racist business people, even well educated ones, are less blunt, yet constantly complaining about the Obama Administration. Yes, it could be a disagreement on a political issue, but it happens too frequently for it not to be a signal. Many of Trump’s racist base hated the fact that a U.S. President had an African father. That’s racism. There is no mistaking it.
Cell phones have enlightened us, from the beating of Rodney King to all Americans watching the brutal murder of unarmed George Floyd in the streets of Minneapolis.
Finally, the majority of Americans, of all colors, recognize what black Americans have been protesting for years. The racist element in law enforcement has committed assaults and murders of black Americans and consistently gotten away with it.
Thank God, most of us have had enough of the evil of white supremacy. We must stand together to eradicate what we all know to be a long history of systemic racism.
Among the many failures of Donald Trump, is his failure to recognize that we’ve had enough of him and his extreme racism. This President now advances a transparent law and order platform of his reelection run. He sounds more and more like one of American history’s most vile, unrelentingly racist politicians, George Wallace, as he stood in the doorway to the University of Alabama in 1963, proclaiming, “segregation now, segregation tomorrow and segregation forever.”
We can eliminate systemic racism from the American landscape, but not with this pathetic narcissist in office.